Demonization Simplified

Demonization Simplified

Can Christians be demonized?

Satan seeks to secure influence and control over our lives. This is clear to all. What many struggle with is the idea of demonization among Christians.

They often can’t negotiate the idea that a Believer can be both demon possessed and a temple of the Holy Spirit.

In Scripture, we never see a difference between “possession” and “oppression.” In fact, those are man-made terms that aren’t found in the Bible. The correct word is “demonized.”

While the following is admittedly oversimplified, it should help people grasp just how demonization works.

I’m going to substitute the influence of demons with the influence of people. This will help us understand how a third party can dramatically impact us, if we allow it. Of course, people don’t demonize us and they aren’t the enemy. The point of this exercise is to bring clarity on how outside sources affect us.

LEVELS OF DEMONIZATION: AN EXERCISE

1. GENERAL INFLUENCE: We are impacted by the world we live in. Immoral TV commercials, social media trends, popular culture and the flood of marketing we are hit by causes many to feel like they can’t measure up. Rejection, low self-esteem and other negative emotional and mental results are common.

2. INVITED INFLUENCE: When we buy into the lies of culture, it’s common to embrace them and alter who we are. The goal is to thrive and break out of our mediocrity, but most often we step right into the trap. We are conditioned to lose our identity in favor of another, all with our eager agreement. We open doors to the influence and affirm whatever is popular, no matter how immoral or inappropriate it may be.

3. MANIPULATION: The next level is much stronger as we find ourselves manipulated to be and do what others demand. This can include culture, but at this point it typically becomes more personal. Other people can put on the pressure to conform to their demands.

4. CONTROL: The chains of people’s expectations get heavy at this level. In a very real-world example, it’s possible to be in a controlling marriage that is devoid of love. The person being controlled feels angry and hopeless and struggles to find a way out.

5. IMPRISONMENT: Again, to take the example of marriage to this next level, terrible situations can get even worse very quickly. Understand, in a marriage there is a covenant, a union that brings complexities into the situation. Spouses are often terrified to escape this threatening situation and often stay in the prison without any attempt to find freedom.

6. TORMENT: The abuse, whether physical, emotional, psychological or other is all engulfing and overwhelming at this point. The hope of being free, joyful and experiencing abundant life is now gone.

7. HATRED: Every evil emotion now drives the person. Thoughts of death, revenge and much darker emotions take over.

8. DESTRUCTION: Full-blown defeat, destruction and open wounds of anguish now overtake the individual. They are broken, emotionally wrecked, mentally unstable and crushed. Suicide, self-harm, drugs and other attempts at relief are common.

9. DUPLICATION: While not an excuse, the next step for people in this scenario, whether it’s the spouse or the children growing up in the environment, is often a life fueled by what they have experienced. Hatred, revenge, drugs, immorality, torment, control and more are passed on to the next generation. Fatherlessness, for example, has a direct impact on the children, and this model is duplicated in the next generation.

DEMONIZATION WORKS SIMILARLY

The above levels are in play in regard to demonic influence as well. To be demonized, at its most basic, is to come into agreement with the influence of the enemy.

If we agree, for example, that nudity in media is okay, we embrace the enemy’s influence and we give license to it. Lust and sexual immorality often follow. Agreement is powerful, and Satan knows it. There are next levels that low-level agreement opens the door to.

In the above breakdown, it would be fair to say that demonization begins at number two. When we invite the influence, we align with the influencer.

It’s also fair to say that demonization can come when we don’t directly invite the enemy to join ranks with us. Torment, trauma and other devastating life issues can result in extreme weakness and hopelessness. If we don’t fight back against the enemy’s plans, it’s common to fall into despair which opens the door for greater demonic influence.

The point of this exercise is to demystify demonization. It’s extremely common among Christians. Our thoughts, our beliefs, our decisions and our reactions to culture and life can give the enemy access.

Demons are invisible entities that talk to us. Really, that’s their most powerful weapon. When we listen and when we don’t respond wearing the armor of God, demonic influence settles in. For many it can last a lifetime.

Of course, we have the victory if we do, in fact, wear our armor, pray with passion, stand on the Word of God and resist the enemy. We are more than conquerors!

No matter how dark and deep the demonization is, whether it’s invited influence or fully manifested destruction, we can be delivered. For those influenced by generational curses or those who have passed on the curse to their children, it’s time to fight!

Repent, surrender, cry out to God, seek deliverance, resist the enemy and change the future of you, your children and your grandchildren! The blood of Jesus is enough!

Christians Consuming Porn

Christians Consuming Porn

BARNA REPORT REVEALS DISTURBING TREND

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No naked people. For Believers, the clear, biblical standard is to live pure, holy lives free of forbidden sexual imagery. No naked people in our sexualized thoughts unless, and only unless, it’s our spouse. Sexual lust steals, kills and destroys in ways few other sins can.

A disturbing recent Barna report reveals that 54% of practicing Christians are consuming porn. Seven percent view porn daily. Fifteen percent weekly.

Possibly even more troubling are the arguments I’ve heard on the topic. Some Christians have challenged me by saying it’s not possible for a man to avoid lust, as if it’s an expected part of our make-up. Others proclaim Scripture doesn’t forbid all sexual lust, only lust about married women. The deception is widespread.

After writing an article on the topic several years ago, I was contacted by a Christian sex-therapist. In his long letter he vented his frustration and firmly renounced the idea that lust is inappropriate. In fact, he proudly revealed how he actually prescribes sexual fantasy about strangers and other people to those who are struggling in the area of sexual intimacy.

SEVEN DANGERS OF PORN AND SEXUAL LUST

ONE: No Intimacy with God

The authentic Christian life demands intimacy with Jesus. The parable of the virgins clearly reveals how intentional our pursuit of God must be. It wrecks my heart to know that people live outside of an all-consuming, loving relationship with the Lord. 

When counterfeit intimacy takes the place of the authentic, only despair remains. Praying in the Spirit is not possible. Faith fades. Love dissipates. Hope is gone. 

TWO. Shame

When the serpent told Eve, “You will not surely die,” he knew the result would be fig leaves. Shame. Adam and Eve did die, spiritually, and their innocence was gone. How often do people make that late-night decision to enjoy some sexual entertainment with the thought that, “I will not surely die?” 

Of course, the “repentance” rarely works and, according to Barna, many will be back at it again the next day or later in the week. 

THREE. Demonization

The Bible reveals that “the curse without cause shall not come.” Well, the counter is true as well. When there is cause, when we open the door to the enemy, all sorts of wicked schemes are initiated. When we view porn or lust, we open the door to the devil. 

Demonization is when evil spirits attack, torment and refuse to stop. There is a license, a permission, that allows them to remain. Sexual lust is one such permission, and unless true repentance occurs, deliverance cannot be experienced. 

FOUR. Wounding our Loved Ones

There are women (and some men, I’m sure) who worry continually about their spouses falling into porn. If it happens, it rips through their heart. The pain is extreme and difficult to heal. Further, parents often fear their children falling into this vice, knowing how spiritually and emotionally deadly it is. 

FIVE. Failure to Fulfill our Calling

We are all ministers and we all have a ministry. I’m convinced that my failure to fulfill my ministry directly impacts people’s eternities. When we view porn, when shame overwhelms us, when demonization is deep and when there is wounding all around, any thought of advancing in ministry is shot until we repent.

SIX. Living in Adultery 

Scripture reveals the true impact of inappropriate sexual lust. Adultery. When we watch porn, we are committing adultery with every person on the screen. When we lust, the same is true for every person in our thoughts. 

SEVEN. Eternal Separation from God

Many Christians will be shocked to find themselves in Hell one day. When we live in sin, devoid of true repentance, we cannot presume to be saved. An eternity of torment awaits. This truth grieves me like no other.

FREEDOM

If you are struggling with lust, don’t despair. Don’t quit contending for intimacy with God. You can absolutely find freedom! God loves you with a passion that’s deep…and he is longsuffering. He will be with you in your journey to freedom.